No, your right, but what we know is what he told us. And going off what he said, he is just ridiculous. He works a full time job and pays the bills, ok good. Then he spends ALL of which he said, extra time playing destiny and that's it. He doesn't give her the time of day. If he can't devote, a couple hours of time for her, take her out once in awhile, pamper her, whatever the case, then he doesn't truly love her and doesn't belong with her. Case closed. From the information he gave, she is not at fault.