I understand where you are coming from. The op did state that he likes to grind which implies that hes on destiny ALOT & there was no hint of a compromise on his part. He seems to think that because he works then hes entitled to do what he wants regardless, if hes single then this isnt a problem but in a relationship it has to be compromised. Since the op never hinted or stated that he tried to compromise then that leaves the opinion that op was being selfish & the gf would have been wiser to leave him anyway. I wasnt trying to be over critical of you, i was just a little surprised & then amazed that you were so casual to this situation especially after what you told me but i know that forums are full of idiots that cant understand an intelligent post. I wish you luck in the future & although im not religious i do believe that our loved ones watch over us when they have to leave. Keep making your parents proud & may the best of your past be the worst of your future.