... He was the selfish one. He made it like he's the sole money maker. Guarantee she help with the rent and bills yet he couldn't compromise with her? It's a damn game I don't think it was an abusive relationship. He's just a addict and giving him positive feedback won't help him. If he tried to compromise then fine. But he seems from what he said is he just simply shut her out, girl should of left him anyways. [spoiler]Hope you liked the wall of text you relationship guru you[/spoiler]