As far as I'm concerned you're only a "slut" if you've committed yourself to someone and you cheat. If you're not in a committed relationship you can -blam!- whomever you want whenever you want (assuming your partner(s) consent, of course). There's this terrible double standard where if a *straight* man has tons of partners he's praised but if a woman does she's considered scum and it's sexist nonsense.