Ok first off, I solo most of the content in this game, including nightfall, so NOONE is holding my hand through anything. Second, it's a strike, the objective is to kill the enemies in said strike, it's not all about the end boss. Most legendaries come from those enemies, in fact there's a higher chance of a legendary drop from them than the actual reward loot for completing the strike. If you want to run off like a frigging Rambo, by all means do, but YOU are the one being unhelpful. If you don't have the time to actually do a strike, don't bother joining. You're a hinderance, you're of no help to anyone.