Cheers, man. I 'm with you on this one. With a six year old and another on the way... I balance work, wife and family and still get plenty of time to play. It's all about prioritizing and managing time. Vault of Glass or Weekly strikes as soon as I get on. Waste no time joining a random dance party in tower or trying to work a god-forsaken loot cave. Your play time is what you make it. If you can't put forth the effort to pre-plan with your family or can't find the energy to "find a group for the vault" (y'all could seriously try harder), this is NOT the game for you.