I -blam!-ING HATE THAT. I have explained for the 10000th time that I can't just pause or leave in the middle of a raid. It somehow turns out to be my fault she can't be patient enough to wait 5-10 minutes. When I broke my toe last week(fell down the stairs, there's your laugh for the day) I asked her to get me a bottled water so I didn't have to go downstairs. She said sure, watching netflix, where she could pause the show. I ended up getting up 45 minutes later to get it myself. I didn't complain. I point it out to her, and now i'm being lazy. FML sometimes.