Everyone deals with it in their own way. What's important is you make sure not to suppress anything. Just do what feels right and natural to you as long as you don't hurt yourself or others. Me? I'm not sure what it is I do. I guess I brood mostly, and try to be there for people who are more effected by the loss. Some people need to talk about it, and I try to be the listener for them, which probably also doubles as a sort of "aversion therapy" for me; submersing myself in the feelings and the memories rather than allowing myself to ignore them in any way, shape, or form.