When you see the object of your affection in your dreams, is it someone you see a lot or someone you think about a lot? If you're a loveable loser like me, then that probably isn't the same thing: three of the four women I've ever loved or do love are on the other side of the Atlantic. And maybe it's because I'm far more a visual guy (memory, learning, etc.), but because I'm not physically with them most or any of the time, I don't see them in my dreams a lot. Which I hate. But I can't control it. Instead, I get crushes from work, current and old. Nice, but not as romantic as telling the woman I love I had a dream about her last night. :/ Just me?