I guess it may seem like males are mostly to blame, because the majority of members here are indeed male. However nobody is "clear" or excused from such behavior because of their gender. There has been a few female members here as well that has been just as nasty as some of the worst male members, it just don't seem to happen as often because for one; there's not as many of us, and two; we're more watched and judged. If I were to say another female member was unattractive, I'd be announced as "jealous."