I really do love the fact there's still some female members on here, that can agree and isn't afraid to admit it. It seems like people believe if there's something we dislike about the community, we're stupid to be here in the first place. I actually dislike quite a few things on these forums, however obviously there's reasons why I still stick around. I enjoy partaking in conversations I couldn't offline. I enjoy getting to know members with the same views as myself. I enjoy so many different personalities mashed together. Do I think the bulling will stop? Nah. Do I think I can change it? Nope. I'm just stating this community got the potential of being SOOO much better than what it is, if we could simply try, JUST TRY, to tolerate others, but people don't want to hear anything of it. "This is this community. It's just who we are and if you don't like that, leave!", what a lazy, inconsiderate excuse. That's like justifying being a shitty person; "That's just who I am and if you don't like that, it's your fault, not mine!"... I mean, why not just improve as a person? Rather than believing the others around you are at fault.. why not just be.. hold on... [i]decent[/i]? You'd be surprised how not only more people start to like you, but how much you start to like yourself. (And obviously by "you" I wasn't actually referring to YOU :P) I can understand better than anyone how frustrating it can be in arguments, trust me, it takes a lot to hold back comments such as "Stop being so god damn stupid!", but comments based towards appearance is extremely unnecessarily. The difference between targeting someone over something so irrelevant on a gaming forum and calling someone a "dumbass" in a tiresome argument, is one is simply out of annoyance (which we all can relate to), and the other is simply going out of your way to be mean. There's no other excuse of doing it than to make that person feel bad about themselves, and if I'm "insecure" for calling that out, so be it.