I typically don't care the gender, if I don't like something you posted, I will let you know, but I don't think I've ever harassed anyone on the site and I don't see why people think it's OK. Anonymity on the internet is not an acceptable excuse because on some level, your personality is still determining how you post, and if you post hate, sexual harassment, etc. then you are most likely a crap person. I get heated in discussions on the site often, but I've never gone so far as to belittle things about a person that really have no relevance to the situation at hand. I believe the people trolling on the site 24/7 aren't trolling, they are really just being themselves under the masquerade of "joking" and it's just not funny when people have to come out and make a thread like this. My general rule, both here and in life, is that if I don't want my grandmother to hear it, then don't say it/type it. Have I broken this rule? Sure, but it's never been anything that if my grandmother saw it wouldn't be able to forgive me for saying and have a "kids will be kids" attitude about it. I really do hope this thread and the discussion generated does help mellow out the more offensive members on the site. If it doesn't, at least you can't say you didn't try.