then it was you who assumed wrongly. theres heaps of reasons folk dont raid. none of them are due to bravery or lack of. i tried to see how much of a riader you are but could get nothing but D2 , you joined this place 2 years ago so might not have raided in d1 . if you check ive probably got about a hundred raid completions from VOG till leviathon. lfg is so hit and miss you get toxic squeekers having hissy fits if theres a wipe, then their mom calls them for dinner and you have to wait or they leave. etc... etc.. ive done enough to know how it goes. sure you can get some good guys. ive seen some amazing players in lfg. but as a 46 year old guy with a family i dont have masses of time to play raids like i did when i was younger raiding in WoW etc.. so if i cant play with guys i know are chilled and arnt tweenagers with issues i dont want to raid these days.