People only care about what affects them, and rarely does it bother them that someone else is bothered. So once it gets to them then they start complaining. Surely you can understand how this will vary between people. A simplified version of how they "pick and choose" which is only the apparent reality it's not the true reality of it. So it's important to note that it sucks no matter what, but people only care or take notice when it's in their neck of the woods. It's understandable to a degree, people are busy.