Dude, I used to feel the same way. Getting a team together Almost always works now. Just crouch walk from the very first entry way up the hall, turn right and then right again up the stairs and 100% of the time you will be linked up with at least 1 other and usually a offering in session. That is exactly how the social space is meant to be played. If you do this w/out rushing up the stairs I'm sure you're going to be quite pleased with the results. I've tested this without issue and many times and it's a blast! No more waiting for nobody. I've even seen two guardians appear out of thin air when I thought i was alone adding an offering.