Right. I'm speaking on my own behalf but I would rather we move on past this mess. If we keep bringing it up more drama will erupt out of something that now lays dormant.

I can respect that, though my interest isn't driven by morbid curiosity at the suffering of others. I'm on the trail of a mystery of my own, but the answers aren't worth causing anyone else any kind of pain. You keep this to yourself if you figure that's the right thing to do.