most ladies i know in real life are unable to use the analog sticks correctly and get too frustrated to play. i've seen first hand the failure of non-gaming ladies, however there are several ladies on my friends list that are quite skilled at gaming, one of them is one of the best raiders i've run with. LFG can be a pain for sure but i guess getting kicked is better than being hit on and annoyed by a bunch of disrespectful losers for an entire raid, these are probably the same people who have female characters but are guys.