My wife hates it with a passion too, difference is she knows Im a gamer its my way of unwinding and the alternative would be me getting pissed at the pub every arvo, she also knows if she doesnt put out .....I dont care Im not a thirsty teen. Dont let any pussy control you ever once they have that control your life is -blam!-ed. Just to make it clear I love and respect my wife and kids and I dont game until kids are in bed and the wife is either working/asleep or working herself.(one of the reasons I do not raid)