You're right in that they do not speak for us. They do, however, understanding the feelings of the community at large and are people willing to actually say what people have been saying to each other. They are willing to put their names and faces out there, to carry the banner knowing full well that it means carrying the burden of people like yourself who view their actions as an attack on you. Byf did an excellent video. He didn't bash on Bungie for their mistakes and spell out how they messed up, he kept in it simple. He said this feels wrong, explains why, and then offered up ideas on how to find some middle ground and improve things. Byf, like many people, care deeply for Destiny. Caring means more than just trying to keep it alive, my friend. It means you have to be willing to critize it from time to time.