You ever see that episode of scrubs were clara says " I wear the pants in this relationship but once in awhile I have to let Turk make a decision about something I don't care about so that he doesn't feel like he doesn't have any say in this relationship like the car he's getting right now I don't care what color it is or how it looks as long as it has 4 wheels and drives*Turk pulls up with 3 mopeds*" That last part wasn't necessary for my point but I just love that show