It's the people that Raid with their actual friends that's the problem. Whenever I join groups where nobody knows each other it's fine, there's more chillness and understanding among us all. Whenever I've joined groups of 3-4 in a lobby and they know each other, I assess their attitude during the first sections, because I know as we get further in people tend to be mouthy pricks. I've been with groups where I've been told to change my loadouts even though it's perfectly fine and I've done the Raid before no problem with the same loadouts. In fact, I have never used these loadouts people keep asking for an I do fine.