Maybe she doesn't have a choice. Dude, this world is not all fairies and berries where everybody gets along and words solve everything. You're dumb to think that way. After reading all of your comments, I've come to the conclusion that you are a lost cause and you put yourself and your family in danger thinking that way. Protection of your children and/or wife should be the top priority in life yet, you would rather roll over belly up to any confrontation that arises and leave them open for the taking. That is a dangerous way to live.