The "Just don't lie" part is my favourite thing there. When me and my friends would get LFG randoms to run VoG hard, we'd ALWAYS ask "Has everyone done the raid before?" as we'd think, if you're doing hard mode then you've at least done normal first. Walk before you can run. People would very often either keep their mouth shut or just lie and say they've done it before. Even though we'd get on Destinytracker and see that they'd have 0 completions. We don't mind if people haven't done it before. Me and my friends are fine with teaching people and doing a little carrying if needs be. But please, just be honest with us. If you lie and die, then we'll get annoyed. If you're honest and you die, we know that you're finding your feet.