For the past year I've only ever run into maybe a dozen ladies on destiny. Only one of those times did someone in the party acknowledge the fact that she was a girl. He said "it's probably a dude". That was the worst I've heard and that was with a random raid team. Other than that every girl I've ever run into was treated equal if not completely treated like a lady. My squad is in our early twenties so a bit more mature besides the fact that we are constantly cracking jokes. Most are actually still my friends list. So when I hear that girl gamers are always mistreated. I'm thinking to myself why not find a group of your own so you don't have to play with kids and immature assholes. There are decent guy gamers out playing. We are not all assholes :D