I honestly don't know maybe they just want you on their friends list, maybe they want to have an Internet girlfriend i truly don't know, I'm sorry you get treated bad but the only way to get back them is to kick their ass in that game. One of my gamer girl friends keeps her mic off, when people start hating on her she puts it on and tells them their just butthurt about getting destroyed by a girl they shut up or they get saltier.