So, got through a discussion with a friend of mine and my girl and one point of discussion was that I am way too nice to others and that it can be taken the wrong way. So I was wondering if it's possible for a guy to be so nice to others that he gets confused for being one of those "nice guys" aka the ones trying to get into other girls pants. Anyways the reason this came up was because I apparently caused a friends ex to double think things while I was helping both out with their relationship. [spoiler]no i had no idea she had feelings for me[/spoiler] I also usually make sure to point out that I'm not interested in them that way. So summary. Is it possible to be too nice to others to the point that you can be seen as trying to get into girls pants.