So if you're wearing an orange sweater and someone ups and suicides over it because their granddad -blam!- him while wearing an orange sweater, you should just not wear orange sweaters? Fine, it's an extreme example. But reality is that how someone takes something is up to the receiver. Minding your words because someone might take issue with it is very reactionary, when the overlying problem is that people don't have a self-image stemming from an internal source instead of external sources. Which is basically a flaw with society at large... And not an easy fix.