The name "Dads of Destiny" itself is alienating in that sense. I'm not criticizing DoD, I'm a member. An active member. That being said, I've been active in Dod since launch and never once have I ever played with a female who is in Dod and only one guy who wasn't a dad. The idea behind Dads of Destiny is that adult male family men would have a place where they could game together, share stories and experiences, and have a group for likeminded folks who are in the same general season of life. Yeah there are some exceptions, but largely that's what Dod is about.