Well. Your best bet? Save alot of money to preserve the quality of your life. You will be divorced, that costs money, you will be paying for a place by yourself, that costs money and you will have child support for the next seven years, so you better buckle down for a hell of a ride and you also better man the fck up and make sure your kid is well nurtured and supported, we don't need anymore assholes in the world and broken homes create them, so do the right thing for your kid or you're an asshole yourself.