Well, I am married, 15 years.... She is cool though and I can play next to her late while she sleeps or whatever, she doesn't mind. In fairness, I do work for tens, so every Friday I have like a 10 hr window to grind. As far as thorn and "respect" goes, phooey. Get that light. I'm pretty average at best in crucible, would be lot worse if I didn't get three kills a game from burn as I'm dead haha. I just don't like crucible, 6on6 to small, to floaty, bad lag, I was and always will be a battlefield guy. Where classes matter, playing the objective matters, and the maps are huuuuge with tons of people. Hard to adjust to this crap fest. I just can't believe the lag, considering it's only 12 players tops. I'd suggest you buy the buff, and try to do the bounties, later in week if you don't have time. You can get three to lvl three I'm sure, that's three light. If my memory serves, 1-3 goes quick.