I work, have a kid, and managed 6 light last time.... Grind when you can, don't poke around and leave matches, manage time wisely... Get a thorn, join em, get the light ;). I had never even used thorn, just read that it was OP, so of course I equipped it haha. If you wait till later and week your bonus rep goes up big-time. Basically just doing the bounties on Sunday will get you a lvl or two.