I'm 24 and grew up playing resident evil and gta on the original playstation. I have a good job and turned out fine. Absolutely no urge to run around shooting heads off as a kid or now. Video games are not the problem. Good parenting molds a successful respectful child. Just because he or she plays video games doesn't mean he's going to be a delinquent running around committing crimes. I had a pretty rough upbringing and even I came to the realization of that on my own.