You cheated lol no helps for a fuvking low life scum of a cheater. Honestly man really??? This is why you don't marry unless you are absolutely sure the person you are with is the best person ever. You're just a stupid mother effer and I guess you can't help those kind of people so I honestly hope the absolute worst for you that isn't death of corse because I'd never wish that. Scum bag is what you are man. Never ever cheat on someone especially your wife that you have an 11 year old kid with. Like the duck you doing with your life bro???