The OP thing was for my thread, sorry. But yeah I'm still outta town, and figured something like this is better suited for a face to face discussion, so I'll bring it up when I see her next. The mess comment I can see that now that you said it, it makes sense.. And I'm a little bummed I didn't notice it. But I'm just going to ease off until I'm back in town and see if she's free for lunch or something to talk.