You're an idiot, evidenced by how you fail to grasp the idea of metagame. Plenty of ways to play a game, if your have two braincells to rub together. You apparently don't. There are only two reasons to be opposed to optional matchmaking: you're either a dick, or a moron. Dicks like you don't want it because it makes their super-secret club less special. Morons like you don't like it because they can't think critically enough to realize that optional means you don't have to use it and can still play with your super-secret no girls allowed club. Bungie claims they want our input. They claim that Destiny is available to change, that it [i]can[/i] be changed to suit players. We're asking for something that won't affect you in the slightest, unless you let it. And if you're such a sour bitch that other people enjoying the game bothers you, then you probably aren't worth the air you breathe or the food you eat.