I was Christian for a long time and I understand what you mean when it comes to fellowship. That's why I made that distinction. Church offers a community you don't get anymore in today's society. Which is a knock on society. Others have realized this, including atheists, agnostics and the like and I've read that people have just started having community fellowship on Sundays. No religion, just getting together with people who like you said, will listen, care, etc. I think people miss that factor and mistakingly attribute it to the holy spirit or some other nonsense when in reality its just the human psyche flourishing in a social environment because we are social creatures.