I'm in sorta a similar boat. Girlfriend, 42 hour/week job. Gym commitments and just life in general. Destiny is relax time for me and I not realizing how hard etheric light would be to obtain, used my roughly 50ish raid materials that I've been saving since January on motes of light because the speaker was selling class items I wanted. If you're on Xbox one hit me up. Username is the same as what I have here.