I agree, however some guys out there are absolute Gems. Played with a gentlemen named KamaSutra, man was an absolute saint. Taught the mechanics to everyone and had so much patience for everyone. Guiding people who didn’t understand buildcrafting, taking the time to explain what everything was. Wonderful.
It's always nice when people help instead of add to the problem. That guy sounds like a good friend of mine who also does that. Working with what people have vs telling them "Must have <insert meta weapon here>" is always the mark of a great sherpa.