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3/18/2016 3:24:43 AM
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Can I just say something about depression?
If someone straight up tells you that they are f*cking depressed and you ask if they're okay and they say "no," don't f*cking ignore them. Jesus f*cking Christ just tell them it'll be okay. Don't just throw your hands up and go "well I don't know how to help you!" No, you can help, just be f*cking supportive. 99% of the time all that person wants to hear is "it's okay" "I'm here" "don't worry" "it'll work out" or "we'll figure it out" or holy f*cking shit maybe they just want a goddamned hug. Just sit there while they cry if that makes you more comfortable. You can make their night go from wishing they were f*cking dead to giving them at least a minuscule sliver of hope. This shit pisses me off.
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1 ReplyGo somewhere else I don't wanna see this sh[i]i[/i]t.
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I don't know how to help you *leaves with hands flailing on the air*
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[i]In the end, none of that matters. Fade to black.[/i]
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2 RepliesHow about you go to a site where someone might give a -blam!-?
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1 ReplyEdited by Promethean241: 3/23/2016 1:13:30 PMThe last time I tried to help people with depression they never talked to me again. They get what they need from you and never talk to you again.
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2 RepliesEdited by MydogThor: 3/22/2016 5:06:59 PMSorry to hear you're having a hard time...does this have to do with the missing car?
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2 RepliesHmm I don't have any issues with depression, but I have some pretty deep-seated trust issues. I'm constantly paranoid that I'm being used by the people I care about and that I wouldn't be missed if I were to die/disappear. I realize these thoughts are silly, but I can't stop them. Could anyone tell me what might be the root of these feelings I struggle with? I always thought it was due to my lack of self-confidence. Sorry if I sound like I'm complaining; I'm just curious what some smarter people may think about this.
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Death is the permanent solution to all your temporary problems! 10/10 teenagers who tried it were so relaxed they fell asleep, instantaneously!
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3 RepliesI hate when people try to comfort me unless they mean it
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3 RepliesYou see the thing is, if I'm having an off day (I'm putting all this down to teenage mood swings atm) and someone were to say "it'll be okay" or "you'll be fine", that's not going to help. I'm highly unlikely to believe them and the things that go through my mind, no matter who they are, include: "They're just saying that" "They don't really care" "They'll just go back to what they're doing without even giving you a second thought" This is even if I know those things aren't true. The brain is a seriously [b][i]weird[/i][/b] piece of meat.
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1 ReplyIs everything ok
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Crippling Depression
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11 RepliesMy word of advice is to grow a pair. Unless your a guy in his 40s with a dead end job and no family or friends that love you. There is no reason to be depressed.
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2 RepliesIs there something you want to talk about, or is this a PSA?
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28 RepliesEdited by Yarbey: 3/19/2016 9:59:54 PMYou should learn your problems are not other peoples problems, it's not fair to push the burden of your happiness or sadness onto others. In fact It's incredibly selfish. Those people have their own wellbeing to look out for, and if you are having a hard enough time just dealing with yours how do you think it's like having to carry both.
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3 RepliesMaybe they have there own shit to deal with? Maybe you should seek out people you trust rather than anyone that will listen? Maybe they've heard it before again and again and are sick of the constant bs rather than sorting your shit out and getting help? If you take offence from this then that's your problem.
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I'm not a therapist and the world is over populated.
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4 RepliesEdited by Ti84 plus: 3/19/2016 10:13:46 PMNo, being a pussy doesn't warrant my care nor my attention. Half the time depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain.
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3 RepliesCry me a river, build a bridge, [b]and get the fúck over it.[/b]
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2 RepliesI am currently suffering from diagnosed depression and you are still being a whiny bitch
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7 RepliesHandling other people's emotions is very difficult, especially when the person in question is very unreasonable. "You're not fat." "Yes I am." "No, you're actually not." "Yes, I actually am." "I tried. Hope you feel better soon. Bye."
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1 ReplySo true, even though the word is abused in a lot of ways. If we are talking about the actual disease then yeah.
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2 RepliesEdited by ducksToDucks: 3/22/2016 12:00:31 AM-Deleted-
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33 Replies[b]I completely disagree.[/b] I've always seen depression as nothing but weakness. Stop being a fhucking pussy, you just want attention, there are a million reasons to be grateful for your life, especially if you live in a first world country. There are people out there that have it so much harder than you, who would kill for the life you have and you just to be an overly sensitive emotional bitch.. like wtf just GET OVER IT! I see depression as natural selection tbh. Just how stupid people do stupid shit to get themselves killed, weak people get depressed and kill themselves, only the strong survive. You have a roof over your head, food to eat and people who care about you, i dont wanna fhucking hear your bitch ass problems. People out there are missing limbs and live their lives on the street in some war torn country and you wanna be over here crying for some petty reason. Smfh, just kill yourself. I dont give a fhuck. This topic always pisses me off.
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[b][i]( ☭ ͜ʖ☭) there will be no depression in the bright future[/i][/b]
