What did you do to get her to like you if you hate her guts so much?

Trust me. You don't say anything to her directly. Here is my advice, followed by my reasons why. If she is really as bad as you say, and she is even slightly popular, then she will take it very personally and spread stuff about you that isn't even true in order to make herself look better and feel better in the face of rejection. When friends and acquaintances bring up the fact she likes you, then you say something like: "Wow, I'm really flattered. I bet she is really great, but I just dont feel the chemistry or think she is my type." You never be the one to bring up the fact she likes you. You only respond to others when they bring it up. You only say polite things about her. Ever. You sont have to lie and say that she is this great amazing person when you actually feel like she isn't, but always be polite. Neer just talk shit on her. Never under any circumstances initiate any conversation with the girl unless you absolutely must because of anassignment, class, or something. You want to make sure you do nothing that could be perceived as leading her on. You also dont want to do anything that expresses any sort of strong feelings for the girl, negative or positive. Absolutely do not bring this up to her. If she brings it up directly to you, make the conversation as brief as possible and basically just say that you have to go quickly but wouldn't mind talking to her about it a bit later. Then call her or text her. If you call, then have some friends with you who can hear your end of the conversation. Don't put her on speaker, or let your friends hear her side of it, thats just rude and mean. If you text her, then you can save the texts. Do not offer to call or text about it unless it feels like she is being very direct, in person, (not through a friend or acquaintance), and it feels like you must talk to her directly. Whether you call or text, be as polite to her as possible, no matter how mean she gets, do not react emotionally. If she calls you names or becomes mean, just say that you are sorry she feels that way and then stop communicating. The reasons why: I trust that your assessment of her personality and morals are at least somewhat accurate and based on experience and knowledge of her. So you probably know that if she doesn't get what she wants, she will react badly. If she feels rejected in a way that is embarrassing to her, then she may try twisting the truth, or outright lying. Just for the record, I believe that this behavior is rare in women, I'm just going off of the assumption that what you have said about her is accurate. The types of things she may spread about you could severely damage your reputation, or even get you in trouble. It could cause rifts in friendships, and have pretty bad consequences for you. By being eminently polite and unemotional when talking about her or to her, and claiming that you dont know her well, you are setting up a pattern of behavior. The pattern displays 1- you aren't a mean person 2- you aren't the type who would talk crap on someone 3- you don't care about her enough to do something mean to her if she rejected you 4- you would never ask her out 5- you have never found her attractive When people see that pattern of behavior, it will be totally inconsistent with the things she may like about or invent later on after being rejected. The most common revenge for being rejected is to turn the tables. This means that she would likely make something up along the lines of you being very aggressive in pursuing her, her turning you down, and you turning into a raging asshole over it. This is why you want friends to hear your side of the phone call, or have a record of your texts with her. A record of texts is better. Only if she pulls a BS move of making up lies and false accusations should you then share the texts with friends. Anyone who comes up to you and says they heard her say false things about you, ask if: 1- they heard it from her directly 2- if they really believe it's true Then show them the text conversation. Let them read it in the spirit of honesty and fairness. At this point, you should still continue to be polite. Just say things like "I didn't think she was that upset, when she started getting mean in the texts I kind of thought she was just messing around or joking. Wow, I feel bad for her now, I didnt mean to hurt her feelings that badly, I just wanted to be honest and polite." At that point, anyone reasonable will back off of you and your reputation will remain intact. If her friends [i]still[/i] pressure you to give her a chance, then the harshest thing you should say about her is "Well, like I tried to tell her, I'm not attracted to her. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who like her, so hopefully she finds someone. The things she said are were really kind of hurtful though, so I just don't think I could see myself giving her a chance. I hope you guys understand, I mean look at what she said. She is obviously really hurt and I feel bad, so I hope you can be ther for her as her friends." Just really go out of your way to come off as a class act. It's more likely though, that it wont come to that. You will probably just continue to hear rumors about how she likes you, and as long as you just remain polite in expressing your disinterest, it will fade away.

[quote]Step 1. First Date Step 2. Ejaculate Step 3. Evacuate Step 4. Tell her she's a rotten bitch. Step 5. Alert her that female strippers make upwards of $180,000 a year.[/quote] ^Wyoming

Varvatos would tell her straight to her face the truth.

Give her a turd in a box, along with a card saying .... Whenever I see you this what I think of you.

wow dude this is just like my japanese animes has she called you a baka yet

Read the first 5 words. [i]So I roll my eyes...[/i] - Have you considered just do what your adolescent heart & mind tells you... Make a mistake, where she never talks to you again. Go through, what we call [u]Depression[/u]. Then an [u]emo[/u] phase. - Finally get yourself back together. [b]AND[/b] realise all these helpful advice you’re about to ignore... you [u]should[/u] have listened too... - Teen Dramas come and go. Rip the band-aid off already and: [i]“Tell her how you feel”...[/i] Only to realise the sad fact, kids being together will always be [u]Kids being together[/u]. - You’re not adults yet... and you’re not ready for the adult stuff.