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Edited by iTz Candy Time:
4/14/2013 9:00:27 PM
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Is confessing the first step to getting rid of your virginity?
The reason I ask this question is because their are people that are out there that admit that being a virgin isn't such a bad thing. Others are happy staying a virgin until marriage and I just think that most of those people are not satisfied not banging any girls.
I confess that I'm a virgin and that I'm pretty upset at myself. I really don't want to wait till marriage to get laid while everyone else is getting all the action.
I'm a virgin because I suck at getting girls.
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3 RepliesWhat do you mean by "confess"? Do you mean saying "hey gurl, this is my first time" when you finally have sex?
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I really don't care about other people losing their virginity. I didn't want to wait till marriage because I really didn't care, I mean I'm not even Christian so that isn't even a factor for me. But I respect other people who do want to wait until marriage, and I don't make fun of people who are still a virgin. It really is about personality. As much as I would say it's all looks, personality can really get a girl faster than looks can. It's just easier for better looking people.
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5 Replies[quote]Is confessing the first step to getting rid of your virginity?[/quote] If Japanese manga is to be believed, it is the ONLY way.
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4 RepliesEdited by Ninjabird00: 4/14/2013 10:49:55 PMDon't be upset, you'll get your chance and when it happens all the time you waited will have felt like you waited only a few minutes.
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1 ReplyHookers are the first step to getting rid of it.
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I just hope that I can hook up with a bunch of girls before I hit my late 20's because women get wiser as they age. Which means that if I want to try and hook up with them and I still happen to be a 29 year old virgin, I would be unsuccessful due to my lack of experience and so that is why getting laid now while your in your early 20's will give you an advantage to getting laid with the shy conservative girls.
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2 RepliesLosing it means you won't have it. I gave mine to the wrong person.... Be careful.
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1 ReplyEdited by GKR: 4/14/2013 9:02:09 PMThere's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Whether for religious purposes or just wanting to play it safe until you are confident that you can support a child, waiting until marriage is perfectly fine.
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16 RepliesNo sex til marriage for me. Nothing wrong with principles.
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3 RepliesBeing a virgin is a problem?
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Rule 1 to losing your virginity: Work out and stay healthy Rule 2: Grow a pair and talk to girls
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Edited by VerticalGradient: 4/14/2013 9:54:59 PMI suppose I'll give my take on it. I do not believe that being a virgin is a "bad" thing. Plain and simple. A person might never have sex in their entire life, and while I do think that's a bit sad, depriving their self of that pleasure, that (possibly) might be their own choice, or it might not - but in any case, it's not like it's a terrible crime. Sex before or after marriage - I also call bogus on this one. Morality's a complex subject, but at face value, to a certain extent, I don't believe that sex before/after marriage is any more or less "moral" than the other. I believe. If [b]you[/b] believe that premarital sex is immoral, then it's immoral. If you don't, then it's not. Because why should it really matter so long as no one's being harmed. Morality is a human concept. I do not believe there's any inherent morality in the world. It exists because human beings, collectively, believe in it. Or so [i]I[/i] believe. I believe that sex simply [i]is[/i]. Not going to go into that much further because this is all that you brought up. In short -- if you're not happy having never had sex yet, then don't try and deny it. If you're fine with it, then great. But it doesn't seem like you are, so I'd try and get laid. Devote all your time into self-improvement and some kind of relationship that could eventually lead to sex, if you have to.
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11 RepliesSince when is being a virgin bad? You aren't supposed to just go around laying with every woman you can. That's totally immoral. I'm waiting because I'm a Christian, but you don't need to be one to wait until marriage. It shows devotion and love to your partner by showing them you aren't just in it for the sex. At the very least, know that you love each other very much. I'm not forcing my religious beliefs on you; sex before marriage is just morally wrong. You don't need to be a Christian to believe that. Now let's see how many people rage at me for posting this.
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6 RepliesEdited by RomanGladiator7: 4/14/2013 9:31:53 PMI'm a 21 virgin. I'm more concerned about getting a girlfriend whether she puts out or not, which has proved to be an impossible feat thus far.
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4 RepliesNo. I've been with my girlfriend for three years, and I haven't lost mine. Mainly because neither of us are in any sort of rush for it.
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2 RepliesTo be honest, when I lost my virginity, I wasn't thinking "oh ya I'm about to lose my virginity!!"
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4 RepliesDestroying your self confidence is probably not a good start to getting women. . .
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losing your virginity at 14 is not a good thing. i'm not saving myself for marriage or anything like that, just a relationship that lasts more than 12 hours.
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Well, it's not like you should really wear your virginity on your sleeve, but if a girl asks, I wouldn't see any shame in admitting that you're still a virgin. Some girls like that, even, who knows.
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Im a virgin and I don't care, I just want a girlfriend the rest will just happen. I don't want to wait until marriage though.
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*grabs popcorn*
