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Edited by Fluffybunnies: 1/8/2015 9:03:40 PM
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Sick of the "Majority" of Girls on Destiny.

Sick of this attention seeking BS that they do on video games. Claiming to "just want to play". They must think some guys are really stupid with the way they act, then the threads they make on here. GUYS ARE MEAN TO ME!!! THEY KICK ME FROM THE FIRETEAM. First off, BS. Secondly, they hit on you, not kick you. I dont speak for every situation, but the majority.... Making a clan for only females? PLEASE. Show me a clan that is for guys only. You wont see one because its rude, disrespectful to the other gender, and girls would then complain on here about that. (thus getting more attention) Funny part about this is, my girlfriend asked me to make this thread because she said when shes on these forums a good portion of all the posts by girls are attention seeking posts. (she is one of them hahaha, cant wait for her to see this) My clan has several females in it, but one thing i dont tolerate from any member is complaining constantly, begging for attention, playing favorites. So its true that ive had to kick 2 females for basically using males in the clan to help them. Some males are weak to the seducing female gamer. The same can be said about males hitting on females, ive had to kick several of them because the girls were getting annoyed and messaged me about it. Remember this is my own opinion that no one has to respect. I only bring it up because usually gamers are judged for acting differently online than they would ingame correct? This applies to females too. Guys like to talk tough, etc etc etc. We have an anonymous factor in these online games. Same goes for girls, but instead of acting tough, you could say some sound flirty sometimes. This doesnt apply to all male or female gamers. ANYWHO there are a lot of studies out there that will prove these opinions of mine generally correct, but again.... THIS DOES NOT MEAN ALL GIRLS OR FEMALES. Edit: make sure to read the whole post then comment. Otherwise i can ban you from replying lol EDIT: Im not going to argue over my own opinion so im muting you instead of feeding the trolls. Good luck on getting me to reply to immature BS EDIT: Just for the awareness, no girls have yet disagreed with me fully. Only guys. Keep that in mind.
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  • Agreed

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  • I'm female. I have never had a single problem with anyone in this game. Except for being mistake for a child, but that's not even really a problem!

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    • I pretty much agree with this post. I must say that the times I've seen a fellow female put up a post with the word "Girl". I'm pretty pissed off. I'm not saying for all forum posts. I for one will admit when I was a lot younger I was flirty. (Was 9-10 during those times) Majority of girls on Destiny or any other online game in fact do use their gender to get what they want. In some cases pull the "Im the only girl so help me please ;(" card. Girls should just act normal. Just be a player (in gaming sense). I don't get what's the purpose of flirting with someone who might have a girlfriend or wife or whatever. Girls are so stupid sometimes. Even I'm stupid at times.

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      • You're in charge of your own gaming, if you think some girls are being prissy , attention seeking hoho's, don't play with them! Simples! You only have to deal with their cr$p for a short time before booting them or leaving yourself. I'm sorry but us girl do have it hard sometimes. Abuse from idiots unavoidable a lot of the time. I play because I enjoy it, I've got a great group of friends online (all men), and they don't dig at me anymore than I do at them... And yes they do help me through certain bits, because I'm a noob-not because I'm a girl.

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      • Only GUYS have disagreed with you? HO HO HOLD THE FÛCK UP, gotta get the popcorn m8.

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        • It's nice to know you and your girlfriend are the sole arbiters of what constitutes attention seeking.

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        • Meh, most men are complete asshats to girls in videogames, from my experience

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          • Surprise you don't suck d*ck. Btw good job on blasting your girlfriend. Poor girl.

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          • Edited by IBuild_Hilts: 1/9/2015 1:55:12 AM
            I'm gonna be honest. I stopped reading at "a good portion of girls posting on the forums" just to point out that a good portion of girls posting on the forums are men Edit: I finished reading, and I agree 100%, but my first point still stands

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          • Edited by L0ngDukD0ngR: 1/9/2015 12:08:54 AM
            So you are comparing someone who is complaining, begging or playing favorites with someone else who is basically being verbally abusive or hateful. I don't see the comparison. Look, in a perfect world everything would be even but lets face it, in gaming girls get the short end of the stick. Do you hear the stuff that people say to females in games? It's -blam!-ed up. So when they take liberties and play guys weaknesses, I don't blame them one bit. What does bother me is when gamers feel like they are being oppressed because they have to be cordial to someone. Guys around guys, almost anything is fair game. But in a real life encounter would you start a conversation with a girl only to change the topic to something sexual after 30 seconds? I would hope not. Just remember this, and guys really should understand this...That woman is someones daughter, someones sister or someones mother. Just show an ounce of respect, and guess what?? You might get it back.

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          • Except you made up the part about your girlfriend telling you to make this thread. Take some responsibility. If she's on the forums she could do it herself if it is her opinion

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          • Yeah I've never had voting issues. I once had a random guy say I sound hot lol.

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            • Loling at the girls that say his gf should've posted this because they don't need the help of men. "man: let me hold the door for you miss" "Woman: I CAN OPEN MY OWN DOORS SEXIST!" Chivalry is dead because feminism killed it...

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              • Edited by SibilantSerpent: 1/9/2015 1:39:18 AM
                Obvious sexist but has a point guy is obvious, and has a point.

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              • I'm just going to change my username to a girl name. Make a girl character. See how many guys will respond to my thread.

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              • The "Mute" button is easy enough to use if I have a problem with someone.... Usually teenage boys..

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              • I don't see how it seems that nearly every girl on the forums somehow manages to find a fireteam of 5 collective douchebags week in, week out, and is more content to sit and be quiet than just find new people? Not doing yourself much favors

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                • The same is true for races, too. There are Asian pride clubs and AA pride clubs, but gee I wonder where the white pride clubs are. On a more relevant note, women have a different psychology, so keep that in mind.

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                • What s -blam!-

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                • Edited by Ouroboros_4: 1/9/2015 12:48:20 AM
                  The primary problem with your post is the generalization. You can balk and double back on your words all you want, but using words like 'majority' and 'generally' mean you think most Destiny girls are this way, which is stereotyping, which is sexist.

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                • You find it to be the "majority" because it's usually on the attention seekers that even talk in game. There are plenty of female gamers I know that won't say a word outside of the XBL party because they get spammed with 12 year old bs and thirsty ass people saying stupid shit.

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                  • You're complaining about attention whores. They can be either gender and are just as annoying regardless.

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                    • When you MUTE them you cant tell who is who and it makes no difference. I concentrate more on what I am doing then what others are up to.

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                    • I have to walk on eggshells in party of guys. Can't defend myself or i am considered a bitcch so I sit there, put up with sexist jokes and play with minimal interaction. Such attention lol

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                      • I would agree fully with your statement, but I have not played with a girl on Destiny but one and that was for about an hour and I didn't really pay any attention to her because I was killing some Vex!

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                        • OP is a cock block

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