Zoe41, I have to give you a ton of credit. You have made one of the most profound posts I have seen in months. But, If you read through these posts you will see that many of us have similar issues with raids. Now is that Bungie's fault...really I cannot say it is. I think it is more of a society issue than a corporate issue. Regardless, I have the utmost respect for you asking your question and responding in a mature manner. You are one of the few.