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Edited by Old_Papa_Rich:
2/7/2016 3:31:43 PM
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Frustrated as a girl gamer
Hi I don't know where to begin and I know it sound awkward ...
I am a girl gamer and had been playing Destiny since the day it launched. Love the game and specially Pvp ( my previous teammates like to recruit me because I am quite a killer and usually get top 2 scores in pvp) But I don't really like turning my mic on because people always mistaken me as a young kid [b]no matter how many times I told them I am a girl[/b] ...I am actually 20+ and studying oversea .
My native language are not English and my friends' time zone is 8 hours earlier than mine now. Though few of them are very happy to have me as raid teammates, most of them prefer a male player (despite his skills are really bad and having bad attitude) than me.
I have always been a decent raid and pvp player , receiving a lot of positive feedbacks from other players . I seldom make mistakes and I am very happy to help new players to do raids or missions...but it seems gender is more important than the person's attitude to them.
Tried making new friends in the forum and joining new raid teams, sadly I felt very uncomfortable because some people just assume girls are very bad at gaming. And they would [b]put all the blame on me when something goes wrong during the raid and all I do is doing exactly what they say[/b]...I just want to have fun and making new friends in the same time zone or others. It's really sad that all I get is blaming and discrimination.
It's really hard to find settled teammates now...my teammates from my former clan has been dismissed and some of them has joined other clan already. Though they would recruit me when there is a spot, as I said I am a girl, they rather ask a rude male player to join them. Was I really lack the humor of a male player or i am just not good enough to team with them.
I don't do Destiny's raid or nightfalls as often as before. Mostly pvp now because I am so tired of people keep blaming me because i am a girl. I rather getting hate messages from the opposing team than discriminated .
It would be nice to have friends and settled teammates who love playing Destiny like I do.
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Well if you are ever forming a raid group or PvP group ( unfortunately I don't do trials :P ), I would be happy to join ya. Been needing a reliable raid group for some time and many of my other friends have slowly been tuning out of the game. ID same as above :) [spoiler]I've got my white sword and white shield ready for the white knight accusers lol[/spoiler]
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What console?
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5 RepliesTbh, I respect female gamers more than male gamers for going against social norms, and spending their time in the way they want to; not the way the majority of females spend their time
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2 RepliesEdited by Miofwin: 2/8/2016 11:42:02 AMWhat system do you play on and what time zone are you in? If you're on 360 and as good as you say at PvP hit me up. I'm always looking for competent players to do trials with. 👍👌 Although I get pretty competitive when I play. 🙈😎😤 Sounds like you have some shit "friends" lol. 😂 [spoiler]If it makes a difference. I'm 23 and have a girlfriend. 😛[/spoiler] [spoiler]Also, Emojis 4 dayzzz 😂😂👌👍😆[/spoiler]
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5 RepliesIt's a game not a dick stop taking it so hard
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2 RepliesHad some creepo friend of a friend join my chat party today and he said a bunch of creepy stuff to a woman in the party who I game with. She'd already muted him before that because he was really annoying. She was disappointed to learn that we didn't tell the dude that the girl he was trying to flirt with had almost 40 years on him before he got kicked. She wanted to crush his fantasy. lol
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If you are on xbox one my group doesn't care if your old, young, male or female
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I PuG all my groups for raids after asking my friends if they want to join. You can add me if you want and if ur on when I start playing you would get an invite.
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That moment when you realize she's better than you
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Maybe I missed it but, what console do you play on?
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Could always join me and my friends and girlfriend playing
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7 RepliesEdited by Project Zero: 2/8/2016 12:42:34 AM[b]This about sums up your post.[/b]
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1 ReplyThere has been a disturbance at the sprite factory. Many unexplained thirsts have appeared.... If it continues there will be no sprite.... and thirsts will no longer be quenched..... Don't you dare destroy my sprite you thirsty teenagers.... go have play time watching porn hub..... I like sprite.
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2 RepliesEdited by River Smith: 2/8/2016 11:43:30 AMHey whats up, I have a great solution to this issue! I understand where your coming from even though I'm a male, people on the Internet can be really mean pugnacious individuals. The solution being "Dames Of Destiny" a girl based destiny community! You can find them in the forums they would love to have you I'm sure! - River, out
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Or you could suck at the game but ya know lets blame it on something other than ourselves amrite?
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Console?
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I dunno who you've been playing with but I always judge players I meet by their skill, that said if you've been here since the start of destiny you atleast know what you're doing. If you ever need to raid or something hit me up, I lost my regular raiding crew,
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1 ReplyLol at all the dry mouth White Knights in this thread... Thirst Level: Imhotep.
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At least you got (and gave) a solid list of people to mute and block in this thread.
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2 Repliessent you a friend request
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If you were on the one I'd raid with you no matter what I don't care as long as you have some semblance of an idea of what to do
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If you're fishing for friends in your timezone then you should probably mention where that is. Personally I don't care what gender a player is, as long as they don't die every 2 minutes and, have a decent attitude and can take a joke. Love me a bit of banter. I've known plenty of girl gamers who put the boys to shame.
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Tbh you're just a gamer who has raided with sexist twats. Don't take it personally, some people just have a hard time dealing with puberty.
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5 RepliesLiterally have never been singled out simply for being a girl. For talking trash? Yes. For being an asshole? Yup. For sucking at the game? Absolutely. For having a vag? Nope. Not once.
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Edited by RadicalSpirit: 2/8/2016 11:16:37 AMJust no... Go get attention from somewhere else please, chaturbate is probably the best bet for you. Now I can turn my attention to the White Knight lames in this thread.... All of them in here with the driest mouths I've seen since I watched Sahara. For some reason when I think about the White Knights on here, I immediately think of that scene from Scrubs when Ted has pop rocks in his mouth haha.
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There's assholes no matter if you're a guy or girl. It's all about finding the right people to play with. Just remember it's a game and move on. Forget about the assholes but don't think people should treat you different because you're a girl. I run into Douchebags all the time.
