I'm a dad of a 14 month old (I dedicate most of my time to her) I only play when she's asleep. I'll generally get an early night around 9pm-10pm then wake up at 3am and play for 2-3 hours before she gets up and I have to go to work. I can't really communicate whilst playing at that time as we live in a relatively small flat. Plus it's hard for me to find people when I do get on to play