[quote]Nah bro, ur reading from the old Bro Code Testament. Now we gotta tell our bros if their -blam!- is a hoe, cause if they are a hoe then that -blam!- is a no-go. But if she just likes you and doesn't act on it then your bro don't need to kno. [/quote] ^Wyoming

Ahhhhh, the L-word. So does that mean you knew Liberace?

Not personally, but I was once struck by a herd of escaped sequins from closet while traversing the wilds of Downtown Dallas.......

I agree with everything except hooking up with a bro’s ex and not telling him if his gf made a move on you. You should always be trying to keep your bros out of toxic relationships and if a gf tries to cheat with you chances are they’ll try to cheat with someone else too.

You tell your bro, you get blamed, unless he has the rose tinted glasses off already. While that rose is still in bloom, your bro will double down on her and freeze you out, giving her more freedom. That is why you go to a blabbermouth friend for "advice". Dude then tells your bro, your bro comes to you & you apologize to your bro and tell him you went to blabbermouth for advice on how to handle this because you did not want to risk your friendship. Your bro is not mad at you and more willing to see his girl for what she is or he tells you she would never do such a thing and you just sit there waiting for the rose tinted glasses to come off. That is why that was part of the bro code. Guys are stupid when in love.

[quote]You tell your bro, you get blamed, unless he has the rose tinted glasses off already. While that rose is still in bloom, your bro will double down on her and freeze you out, giving her more freedom. That is why you go to a blabbermouth friend for "advice". Dude then tells your bro, your bro comes to you & you apologize to your bro and tell him you went to blabbermouth for advice on how to handle this because you did not want to risk your friendship. Your bro is not mad at you and more willing to see his girl for what she is or he tells you she would never do such a thing and you just sit there waiting for the rose tinted glasses to come off. That is why that was part of the bro code. Guys are stupid when in love.[/quote] Idk who you hang out with but all my bros have a mutual understanding that if a gf is cheating they tell the bro right away and they’ll respect it.

[quote] Idk who you hang out with but all my bros have a mutual understanding that if a gf is cheating they tell the bro right away and they’ll respect it.[/quote] I want you to step back and read that to yourself. Not only have you just disrespected my friends, but me as well. This is how you talk to me almost everytime we interact and you wonder why I lose my patience with you.

I think it’s more a lack of tone caused by written text that causes the disconnect. I’m well aware the words I tend to use over texting can come off as patronizing but I assure you my intention is anything but.

[quote]Idk who you hang out with but all my bros have a mutual understanding that if a gf is cheating they tell the bro right away and they’ll respect it.[/quote] All you have to do is think about how you word things. My friends and I, we have a mutual understanding that if a girl cheats, they tell that person & they will respect it. So far it has worked. (or if you have yet to experience that issue) Thankfully we have not had to test that yet. That changes the tone of it to be you relaying your experience & your friend's agreement & does not look like you are saying, "Xronad, your 42 years of life on this planet, your experience, your choices, your friends, they are all shit. This is why I am better than you." Every human is different, but most men, when in love, they will refuse to see it when their "love" is cheating. They blame the messenger. I have witnessed it too many times and talk to too many people who have had the same results. Love blinds and makes fools of us all at one point or another. It doesn't make anyone a lesser person, but it does make them a better person if they are able to get back up and try again.

[quote][quote]Idk who you hang out with but all my bros have a mutual understanding that if a gf is cheating they tell the bro right away and they’ll respect it.[/quote] All you have to do is think about how you word things. My friends and I, we have a mutual understanding that if a girl cheats, they tell that person & they will respect it. So far it has worked. (or if you have yet to experience that issue) Thankfully we have not had to test that yet. That changes the tone of it to be you relaying your experience & your friend's agreement & does not look like you are saying, "Xronad, your 42 years of life on this planet, your experience, your choices, your friends, they are all shit. This is why I am better than you." Every human is different, but most men, when in love, they will refuse to see it when their "love" is cheating. They blame the messenger. I have witnessed it too many times and talk to too many people who have had the same results. Love blinds and makes fools of us all at one point or another. It doesn't make anyone a lesser person, but it does make them a better person if they are able to get back up and try again.[/quote] 🤷‍♂️ I’m not going to put extra effort into my posts to see if anyone is going to get offended by it. Sorry mate. I guess I’m just lucky to be in a unique situation.

You do not like me getting upset with you, but you are not going to take the time to think about how to word things better to avoid issues that your laziness causes. Gotcha. I can fix that then.