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10/16/2015 3:31:36 AM
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I'm looking into getting something similar, it's a kitten collar that is safe for BDSM. Different types of collars mean different things, but I feel kitten play is a bit different from what you two are looking into. YouTube has a lot of good videos that talk about good BDSM collars and info
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What's kitten play? Sounds kinky. Is it still BDSM or some kind of role play?
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Yes it's a firm of BDSM (with the exception that you dress and act like a cat) and I wouldn't call it role play per say, it's hard to explain. There is this girl on YouTube that can explain it better than me lol. She actually got me into it & I think she's gorgeous and very informative.
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Id dig havn a chick as my cat slave. Id abuse that pussy all day!
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BDSM isnt about making someone your "slave" :\
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Ya i know its bondage am i right? Im just saying what im into. I love being dominate aggressively. I dont like choking girls im afraid id do permanent damage but i like being in control mainly. So having a girl on a leash and tieing her up and all that would be my cup of tea.
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ah i see, i thought you literally wanted a slave lol. lots of people have the wrong definition of bondage, but what your into is not wrong
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No more of a role playing slave. I like to make it so she serves my cock and noone elses anytime of my choice. Unfortunatly my wife isnt into that she likes it hard but shes wierded out by my fetishes. Truth is though all the girls who were into that had guge immotional problems and were too dependent on me like they would die if i wasnt with them. So i dont have an issue with it shes a great mother to our son and loves recieving me on the daily so im satisfied. Still have my sexual preferences though
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Okay I get it, and its definitely not my thing :). I just feel like whatever is a sexual thing it should stay in the bedroom. Making something sexual into a lifestyle is a lil strange but there's nothing wrong with it. [spoiler]Like could you imagine if back in highschool there was a click of furries or BDSM people who roamed the school. I'm into blind folds, hand cuffs, and foreplay, but I don't want to broadcast that to the point that it what people think about me. Also what would you call someone who is Botha sub and a Dom? Ive been sub before and wouldn't mind it again but also wouldn't mind being dominant.[/spoiler]
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Edited by Masque of Night: 10/20/2015 12:10:21 AMThe term you're looking for is a "switch". It just means someone can take either role and do so comfortably and effectively. I know the question wasn't directed at me, just pokin' in. lol
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Many don't walk out with the ears and tails, I wouldn't. In fact most only use out in the sexual acts. Wearing it in public isn't what I'd want to do, but to each their own
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The girl in the video was totally adamant about it. I don't understand the point in wearing that stuff in public other than to advertise that it's what you do.
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yea, i dont get it either. i understand wearing the collar, cause i would, but the full thing isnt right. i guess its cause she had to hide it from her family and people for so long, so its something she doesnt want to hide anymore. if i saw someone, i personally wouldnt be offended, its not to bad
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I haven't youtubed much, but i've looked into the different types of collars. She actually already has a black leather collar for me with an O-ring on it, and a leash to match. Usually i'll wear the collar around the house, or outside with the leash if she wants to walk me somewhere. Buuuuut that's not exactly something you can wear around regularly to many places, so we're looking into this since it's something a little more discreet that won't raise as many eyebrows. Plus it's something I can wear around when her and I are apart. I didn't know you were into that kind of thing yourself. It's actually kind of funny, because my girlfriend and I do puppy play sometimes. Different animal, but similar nature. lol
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YouTube is actually how I came across kitten play. I've always been interested in BDSM, but never really comfortable to chase the interest because I wasn't comfortable with what others thought. Now I could care less about that & have been trying to learn more about it, it's how I came across screamkiwis YouTube. She gives tons of info on kitten play, but I know there's other channels that talk about other BDSM. I swear, everyone we talk I find out we share other similarities, it's kinda cool :p While looking for kitten play collars, I did stumble across normal BDSM collars that are everyday appropriate. I'll pm you a good website. I do recommend looking at reviews, just to be sure it fits you and your partners needs ;D [spoiler]also I'd recommend looking at etsy.com, there handmade collars, bit you might stumble across one you like[/spoiler]
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My like for you doubled at least with this. Awesome to know more people here are into kitten play [spoiler]not that I didn't like you already of course haha[/spoiler]
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Lol thank you, the feeling is mutual :) I'm in the beginning stage of stage play, still doing research, I don't exactly know how to find someone into it. How long have you been doing it?
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For like a year or so, I discovered it with screamkiwi too basically. And I've met tons of people on this site called FetLife. It's a bdsm social media site. It has its weirdos but most people on there are really nice.
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Screamkiwi is amazing! And thanks for that info, I'll check it out. Since I'm still a beginner I don't really know where to start, so every bit helps :)
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Lol it's funny when I spot you in threads like these
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Lol look away!
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I will never look away [spoiler]insert all Lenny faces here lol [/spoiler]
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Edited by PJ Sam: 10/16/2015 4:08:54 PM[b] [/b]
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I found a link to etsy.com when I was searching for this, but I didn't look into it. I'll reconsider that. And I always search for at least a few reviews before we buy anything, it's the safer way to do things. And you have a point, i'm beginning to wonder when we'll actually hit a dispute or disagreement. If not, you and I would probably make good friends, which is highly unusual since I have a tendency to keep most people I meet as distant acquaintances.
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I never knew you were into that stuff...;_;
