No assholes please. I just got a girlfriend and I love her very much (by the way so there isn't any more confusion, we have known each other for a long time, but only admitted our love now). But, I never did this before, I need advice, I see so many with wives and girlfriends on here I thought this would be the best place. I just don't want to lose her for the wrong reasons. At least she calls me her knight :) Thank u all of my fellow guardians who have helped this means a lot to me I guess the forums are not just for bitching, whatever advice u have give it to me, make it funny if u like. Thanks for all the super good advice.
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[quote]thanks for all the "super good advice"[/quote]
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Just be yourself. Obviously you've done a good job of that already. Keep doing what you're doing.
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give her sum fok
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Giv her teh fuk
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"Cause I ain't never did this before, no"
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1 ReplyHonesty, Loyalty, Communication. Best wishes to you both.
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1 ReplyU must be VERY desperate to turn to the internet.
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1 ReplyI am going to assume you are younger and even if you aren't the following will hold true. 1st you said you are friends. Now before you think any further you need to ask yourself are you willing to potentially lose your friend to pursue this. If the answer is no then u would remain friends. Even though you can say at this point you would remain friends it gets difficult after you have been with someone in a romantic capacity. You need to ask yourself these questions and be true with yourself. If things don't work out can you be her friend seeing her with someone else? Will you hold resentment if she is with someone else? Will she be able to continue the friendship after being in a romantic relationship with you? You may not have the answers to the questions but the initial point is if you are friends there may be many many factors that will ultimately end your friendship. Second as mature as girls will have you believe they are they are notoriously indecisive. (Not all but alot because of age and inexperience the odds of staying together are stacked against you. This is no exception to men either so before the flames come I wanted to state that.) What's good now may not be good in two years maybe more. Which goes back to the first question. Are you OK with losing the friendship? It's difficult to date a female friend. In my experience you both move on and you will talk here and there and then you pretty much go your separate ways. It happens as you get older anyways but if you think you both will be OK then I say go for it. It's all about taking a chance but that is something to consider. Just my two cents.
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1 ReplyFirst mistake is trusting the Internet
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eat the booty like groceries
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Does she like to get sexual?
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2 RepliesMe: Hello, are you a..... *Drops cards* (Thinks to self: Shit this is the second time i have done this play it cool, no crying) Her: Um.... Me: *Leans on lockers, but fails and falls down* *Begins to cry* (Just chill you got this) Her: You ok? Me: I think i just fell for you Her *Giggles* You need help Me: No, but just in case can i have your number if it happens again? Her: *Laughing* Sure *Gives number* Me: Bye! *Gets up and walks away* Her: Bye Me: I did and i didnt cry! *Proceeds to vomit on self* *Cries*
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Just be yourself
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4 RepliesDump that whore, and get a horse.
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6 Replies[quote]I need advice, I see so many with wives and girlfriends on here I thought this would be the best place.[/quote] Ha Haha Hahaha hah [spoiler]HAHAHAHAHAHAHA[/spoiler] [spoiler]I cri ;_;[/spoiler] [spoiler]there are some on here who do, but probably not enough to merit a "so many" kek [/spoiler]
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First love can b a real waste o time
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Just be honest and yourself. Keyword is honest. I've been with my girl for 8 yrs and have 2 kids. Trust me stay faithful and honest and you will be fine.
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1 ReplyThese forums are so shit now. 5+ hours and this is still in #Destiny. Mods are -blam!-ing horrid on this site.
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18 RepliesEdited by bLooM_pHaZe: 8/12/2015 12:19:53 PMFor what it's worth: 1) Women see through BS quicker than anyone else: don't lie, don't cheat (don't be that guy) and don't be too nice too often, - women need a bastard occasionally, even if they themselves don't know it. Keeps them on their feet, this does not mean be a prick either, or a selfish one at that. 2) Women work men out VERY VERY quickly, so don't reveal all that you are too soon, even though you've known each other a while. Keep some surprises about yourself and or your ability. Be confident, be yourself yet be willing to change and grow with her. 3) Surprise her...in little ways. As other peeps below have already mentioned. But do it in YOUR OWN way, not what others think, and trust me, she'll know. 4) If she cheats or lies even about small things, friends or not...leave. If she senses you're that 'Nice Guy' and gullible for what that's worth, you're in trouble. The Nice Guy paradox. 5) With regards to intimacy, women are like sleeping dragons and, can take ANYTHING a man can give...anything, and far far more. So be wary about exploration long term, but just be certain that she has been thoroughly pleased first and try to follow her lead but again, surprise her. Go down town on her in a sensual way and do not...I repeat, do not go for glory straight away or too soon man, tease her and read her body language. 6) Cook for her sometimes and take her BS without you having the need to solve all her problems, just listen. Empathise and do not sympathise. See rule 4) about the nice guy paradox. Do not talk or boast about yourself or your apparent accomplishments too often if at all yet, be confident about who you are, be yourself. 7) Be good with your finances and plans, women do not like guys usually, that are poor with their money because they often always look for stability with a plan that goes somewhere. With the caveat of occasional danger and risk - don't be boring, surprise her (this is repeated often). 8) Be friends as well as lovers and respect that trust even if you have temptation, or you dirty the ground you set your path upon initially and it is NEVER the same within or without. 9) Let her go... 10) Never try to control her and vica-versa. See rule 9), 1). Support her choices and let her lead when she needs because in modern relationships, it ought to be 50-50% and do not let her think that you will do all and everything for her. She must take responsibility for her share of the pie and share all her assets and financial responsibilities. If she is poor with money, leave or your screwed long term...love, or not. Also, be wary of the fact that almost all women have some form of secret account/s, that she will never likely tell you of, assume she has one and, so should you as a back-up. Other than that...share. It's the real world and not wonderland, even if at times it seems as such. There are 21 rules I was taught and learnt, but I'll stop there man, it's the Internet and everybody's a hero and or an expert. All of the above are just briefs to the deeper content, but you're smart perhaps...you'll work it out because, that's part of life. Live it. [spoiler]Given in good faith, take it as such because I would almost never respond to such threads. [/spoiler]
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1 ReplyGet her hooked on Destiny... That will probably save u alot of trouble..
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2 RepliesListen bitches, this is my kingdom. When I fûcked Cayde in the ass, he whispered in my ear "It's all over now". Soon after I shoved my big wet schlong down his throat to convince him to hand over the soverngay. He pleaded me to stop.. But I kept going. I thrusted OVER AND OVER till he choked and passed out. It was done and the kingdom was mine... So welcome to my kingdom bitches.
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Accept everything you are and what she is
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Simple. Be trustworthy, be nice, be happy with her, show her your love, show your loyalty, surprise her with random gifts, easy stuff.
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I must be missing something but what's the question?
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#offtopic
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Free him.