This is a new low in shit-posting the game. It's terrible that happened to her if it's true, but correlating that to Destiny 2 is ridiculous. That can and does happen in pretty much every online experience with random people and as others have pointed out, where was the parental oversight to not have messaging limited to friends only? Secondly the messaging isn't done in-game. There is no way to message another player without using your consoles chat. Last but certainly not least a shout-out to all the people in the comments who think this is (rightfully) a terrible thing for a random person on the internet to do to another (let alone a kid starting out) and yet are perfectly okay with living here on the forums to shit on the game and anyone who doesn't. May the irony be forever lost on you.