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2/25/2023 8:56:32 PM
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It’s 2023….
Can we stop with the whispers and private messages about how we play GAMBIT?
Literally had a POS shame my wife because she had to attend to our 8 month old , not only doesn’t she have less time to play and when she does has enough going on to be worried about a keyboard warrior name shaming her.
It’s gambit……..
[spoiler]gambit…..[/spoiler]
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#destiny2
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2 RispostePoor kid with a diaper full of $hit cause mommy’s playing Gambit hahaha
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4 RisposteIt’s a video game. You’ll live. Stop being weak.
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2 RisposteNow go grab a dictionary and look up the word irony.
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It's a toxic, trash community, well not all however most... Just move on and expect nothing less from these children..
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2 RisposteModificato da FluffyBunnyFeet: 2/27/2023 4:36:13 PM2 solutions. 1) Turn whispers from random chuckleheads off to remove yourself from the equation on that front. and 2) Don't afk in Gambit.
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2 RisposteJust ignore it; I’ve done the same thing when my kids were babies. They come first. Always. Plus who gets salty over losing a game of gambit? Kid needs to get a life.
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1 RispondiI'm not sure I understand what the problem is here. Your wife quit a gambit match to care for your baby and got a mean message at some point afterwards and now you need to come to the forums to be mad at everyone because somehow its our fault? I would think an adult would be able to ignore something like a (I assume) pm in a video game and not be so upset that strangers were mad at them when they had no idea your wife had a good reason to leave the match. If your wife, or you, is so emotionally fragile that you can't handle people being upset with you in a online game after you left a group with no warning you probably should not be playing online games with people who you don't know or haven't been told that you might need to bail for your kid at any moment.
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1 RispondiWhy don’t you be a man and attend to your child and let your wife play gambit… jeeez 😂
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…and people are as soft as ever
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28 RisposteAny reason why YOU couldn't tend to your child while your wife played? Give your wife a break, like you said, she barely gets time to herself, go be a parent
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1 RispondiJust seeing the comments this shows you how far Humanity has dropped.. Yes I get people are making some light jokes while others are being serious.. But if I know one thing from the world.. life isn't as easy as you guys make it sound trust me I am still in my early 20's yet I can already tell you what most Family/Older Adults go through.
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1 RispondiNobody plays gambit, at least not seriously
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Do what I do. Turn off all messaging and chat. Let them scream into the void.
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10 RisposteI have two kids and you know what I do and here comes the hard part you hit the return to orbit for a few seconds I know it's hard my finger cramped up one time but you can do it I have faith
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1 RispondiThe lack of self-awareness in this post is actually insane…
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1 RispondiIf she doesn't have time to play she shouldn't play a team game, simple.
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5 RisposteI feel you, but also Gambit is such a drag. If I see teammates afk for whatever reason I just stop playing and let the other team win.
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I'm kind of baffled that you came to the forums to share her life story. Multiplayer games have been around long enough now to know that people are dumb. All of 'em. You, me, her, Joe from down the street, and yes, even grandma Susan who just wants to grind out monkey nuts on runescape. Why, especially on this game, are you surprised that someone is being toxic and stupid?
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What do you mean by "it's Gambit"? Just because it's not important to you and family, it should be considered casual and useless? Hatemail was wrong definitely. But abandoning your to a likely loss is also bad behaviour.
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2 Rispostei wouldn’t get too pressed. it’s a video game and, much more broadly, it’s also the internet. personally, I’d apologize for going AFK and explain that I had an urgent matter to attend to. at that point I could care less if they accept the apology or not.
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Modificato da Lore Lawyer: 2/26/2023 4:52:04 AM[quote]It’s 2023[/quote] Amen
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Turn that junk off and set your messaging to friends and it’s never an issue.
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Some people that play this game have really -blam!- lives and to them gambit is all the got. So they foam at the mouth like rabbid dogs when drifter says "aww, better luck next time".
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I see a lot of comments about respecting someone’s time, but not enough about understanding one’s situation. Of course this can be seen on both sides of the coin, but unless it’s clarified we don’t know if the child was sleeping or awake, yes, she’s a mother therefore she’s going to have a 24/7 Job until the child grows and becomes more responsible, but it doesn’t mean she’s not managing her time nor does it mean she should shut off something that she enjoys to do. When she left the match we don’t know the circumstances of the teammates she left to attend to her child that is there within reach. They may be parents with the same exact circumstance and are trying to have fun or grind and enjoy themselves too, but when she did leave it may have made the match unenjoyable for the others but it doesn’t mean that negativity should’ve been made because of that. It’s a multiplayer game so Everyone has a shared understanding of playing together…no, it’s a game and everyone is trying to have fun in their own way. All I’m saying is, you never know someone’s situation so why say something negative, if anything be constructive or understanding. Regardless of them leaving or not and you potentially getting upset think before sending a message out of spite or anger.
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1 RispondiIt's 2023, can we stop getting angry at people being annoyed when we go afk in games.
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2 RisposteObservations so far: 1- in-game texting. Uh... Doesn't that require one to STOP playing long enough to slap keys or click a mouse? When I'm playing something (Gambit or otherwise), I'm usually focused on what I'm shooting... Not what words are popping up in an area off the objective. I'm Xbox, have text off but voice chat on, and IF I have to go AFK, I'll pull my ghost out while I'm in a non-combative area/corner, unless it's something major, then I'll just exit. (Campers on the other hand... the ones that do nothing until the end... now THAT'S wrong and imo, reportable) 2- family "issues". Here's a bone of contention for a lot of posters here... pros, cons, indifferences, etc. Let's face the root of the matter... 💩 happens. There's no planning for the unanticipated. If ppl can't understand that things happen without notice... then they need to get outta the basement and smell this thing called life, and get a reality check. Don't get me wrong, everyone has a different level of what's important to them. But for anyone with a higher level of game importance to say to someone with a higher level of family importance to "budget" their time better... your (meaning whoever) circumstances are probably different than the other's. Again, 💩 happens. Assuming that someone jumps into a multiplayer aspect just to go afk because of life... how do you (as in anyone) know as a fact that they didn't make sure all was well before joining? How long were they playing before this happened? Was the team all the same individuals every match? Too many variables to say for a fact that a person needs to "budget" their time better. But alas, we live in a time where compassion and understanding are severely lacking, toxicity abounds, thought processes are limited to one's own viewpoint, and being considerate to others is based on perspective: "you" should do this, "you" should say that, because "I" do/say blah blah. Lastly... speaking of game modes specifically... prioritize the activity. Gambit/Vanguard types... wins are not necessary to get pinnacles, just rounds completed. GM? NF? Those [u]are[/u] win based. I'd stress more importance on the activities that matter if anyone is medal/achievement hunting. Anyway, these are just my musings on this thread, ramblings of one who sees more sides to a story than just one.
